Ever-Listing lover
Yeah.... yeah!! Read it again... its 'Ever-listing' and not 'Ever-lasting'. You are the ones, who start evaluating your mate minutely; like over their habits, their appearance, and even their style of speaking. Trust me you do judge people over their type of accent, remember that saying, ‘You find beauty at its best, until they opened their mouth'!
And this habit of yours remains so forever, even if you are in a healthy committed relationship you tend to pressurize yourself and your partner by judging them all the time. This creates stress for your partner to live up to your expectations.
Solution for this is that you first have to throw away your first 'check-list' and secondly... and the most important; 'Drop the idea to create a second 'Check-list'. Or else you could end up living your life as a loner.
