They have confessed that they love to do all the work back there in bed. But in a survey conducted most men have revealed how secretly they would love their women also to get involve.A segment of men were asked to share their fantasies, some of them admitted that they want their women to get involved in the work.While some sheepishly confessed that they too love to be at the receiving end sometime. A part of men revealed that they too love foreplay as it insinuates them to the core.Here we bring in to you some of their desires:Hold men gently:2 out 3 men said they love their women to gently hold their heads while they lean in to kiss them. Kiss them back:Most men admitted that they love wild kissing sessions but secretly they love when their female partners rubbed them, licked or kiss them on their ear lobes.Do it for us:Men prefer women to take up the initiative too. During the survey when asked whether they want their partners to do random stuff for them; some said yes, while others snubbed.They said they would want their partners to feel a comfort level while having sex.