For men it must always be about how they handle their sexual attitude around women. Men mostly doubt themselves about whether or not they are capable of turning on a woman on their own.
This self-devaluation leads to lack of sexual confidence which ultimately is a big turn off most women.
In order to avoid any such situations you must need to get your skills straight. A guy with good sexual confident is a sure-short charmer then a men flaunting a completely freak out soul.