According to Gottlieb, “People's lives are so blurred because of the 'sameness', because of everything that they are doing together, that they do not really have a separate spear for this aspect of their lives.”
Sameness is referring to a couple who has a lot in common, as opposed to a couple who has an “opposites attract” dynamic.
It is important for couples with 'sameness' to communicate about sex and make the time to separate that part of their marriage out, she noted.
