New Delhi: All of us like to live in that perfect bubble of ours where, there are things to satiate our desires and people to support us in our worst of times. A new app is doing just the exact thing for us by providing us a virtually perfect partner, a perfect someone that we have always craved to be with!
Applications like ‘Boyfriend maker' and ‘Invisible Boyfriend/Girlfriend' let you design your own partner. Thus, you get a partner who knows how you should be complimented, what all you are expecting in revert of a text and how far you would like to be wooed by him/her.
Delving into the positive aspects of a world that is absolutely flawless and at par with your expectations, one gets a tender rise in his/ her self esteem. You feel wanted and needed by someone who is ready to hold you the way you want. Moreover, you tend to feel more comfortable and your approach to be in a happy world gets recognized.
While one can definitely enjoy the stature of being with someone always once you are ready to shell out around Rs 1500 bucks per month to keep this app, there can be a lot of serious alarming things associated with such services.
First, there is a threat that you may get so engrossed in the world of virtual pleasure that you can eventually land up diffusing the real things coming to your way. To simplify, you may start neglecting the real and accepting what is fake and nothing more than a figment of your own imagination.
Depending on someone for your own happiness who doesn't even exist can put you in a complex situation that would be damaging for no one but for your own self. Further, it's in human behaviour to never get satisfied and when you get someone who is fulfilling one after every emotional need of yours, you are likely to demand more from your emotional self and then expect it to be fulfilled too.
And as it goes, a relationship nurtures when two different kind of people are ready to give it all to make each other happy. Here, with such services, you yourself are the one giving all to make you happy by putting the gun on the shoulders that are invisible.
However, that's all to say that every coin has two sides. Watch your side and beware!