3. Stop re-affirming yourself that your past was agonizing!
You cannot strangle your future to death just because your past was heartbreaking. Let yourself lose and prepare yourself for forthcoming relationships and be all set to begin a new gamble. Who knows when you strike the right cord and hit a Bingo!! Reciting your sufferings should be put to rest and living in the fear of history repeating itself should be surpassed. No disbelief that your reminiscence are invaluable but you have to let your life create new memories that you can always treasure.