2. Start receiving your bloopers in a positive way!
You should not keep discovering defects in your ex. It's time to start accepting your faux pas too. The fear of finding out that you are accountable for all the damage and destruction caused to your relationship keeps you away from accepting your faults. Alter the concept of you being faultless so that you can mend your ways of dealing with life and relationships duplication of your mistakes does not take place in future.