3. Look isn't that guy Hot!Yeah… He's indeed really hot! What if your guy replies this to your teaser question? Would you go back finding details or hints to find out if he's gay? A Date is for both of you to know each other better not to find out each other's sexual preferences. What if he on a date with you started checking out hot chicks around the restaurants or beaches? Of course deep down you would never want him to take his eyes off you right? Bingo!! Start doing this to him too; he too wants your attention.