Scientists have just unveiled the secret to a happy sex life, which is- time and effort. Without putting some time and effort in your relationship, your sex life will eventually drizzle out.
A new study has also revealed that people who believe in ‘sexual destiny’ expect sexual satisfaction to happen as and when it’s meant to be. They make no significant effort to amp-up their sex life.
There are two kinds of people, one who believe in ‘sexual destiny’ and the others who believe in ‘sexual growth’.
People who believe in sexual destiny are the ones who firmly accept as true that two people are either sexually compatible or they are not.
The team has discovered that these individuals, when experienced lack of chemistry in the bedroom, simply gave up on their relationships instead of working things out.
People who believe in sexual destiny use sex as a parameter to find how well their relationship is going with their partner. They believe problems in the bedroom equals to problem in the relationship as a whole.
On the other hand, people who believe in sexual growth believe that sexual problems can be handled with little efforts. They don’t let the sexual dissatisfaction affect their relationship.
Also, the believers of sexual growth had a better connection during sex with their partner as compared to those who believe in sexual destiny. They are more open to their partner when it comes to sexual changes.
The believers of sexual growth enjoy a happening sex life even when the ‘honeymoon phase’ of a relationship is over.
Sex life is just like a garden. You need to nurture it.