Thursday, March 28, 2024
Advertisement
  1. You Are At:
  2. News
  3. World
  4. Have become sadder and wiser after 30 days of my hubby's death: FB COO Sheryl Sandberg

Have become sadder and wiser after 30 days of my hubby's death: FB COO Sheryl Sandberg

Los Angeles: Facebook Chief Operating Officer (COO) Sheryl Sandberg, who has been grieving for a month after her husband died suddenly, said she has become sadder, and wiser in mourning.She posted an emotional message dedicated

India TV News Desk India TV News Desk Updated on: June 04, 2015 14:45 IST
have become sadder and wiser after 30 days of my hubby s
have become sadder and wiser after 30 days of my hubby s death fb coo sheryl sandberg

Los Angeles: Facebook Chief Operating Officer (COO) Sheryl Sandberg, who has been grieving for a month after her husband died suddenly, said she has become sadder, and wiser in mourning.

She posted an emotional message dedicated to her huband on Wednesday, 30 days after his death.

David Goldberg, 47, was the chief executive of online polling firm SurveyMonkey. He died suddenly after falling on a treadmill at an upscale resort in Mexico.

Here is her Facebook post:

Today is the end of sheloshim for my beloved husband—the first thirty days. Judaism calls for a period of intense mourning known as shiva that lasts seven days after a loved one is buried. After shiva, most normal activities can be resumed, but it is the end of sheloshim that marks the completion of religious mourning for a spouse.

A childhood friend of mine who is now a rabbi recently told me that the most powerful one-line prayer he has ever read is: “Let me not die while I am still alive.” I would have never understood that prayer before losing Dave. Now I do.

I think when tragedy occurs, it presents a choice. You can give in to the void, the emptiness that fills your heart, your lungs, constricts your ability to think or even breathe. Or you can try to find meaning. These past thirty days, I have spent many of my moments lost in that void. And I know that many future moments will be consumed by the vast emptiness as well.

But when I can, I want to choose life and meaning.

And this is why I am writing: to mark the end of sheloshim and to give back some of what others have given to me. While the experience of grief is profoundly personal, the bravery of those who have shared their own experiences has helped pull me through. Some who opened their hearts were my closest friends. Others were total strangers who have shared wisdom and advice publicly. So I am sharing what I have learned in the hope that it helps someone else. In the hope that there can be some meaning from this tragedy.

I have lived thirty years in these thirty days. I am thirty years sadder. I feel like I am thirty years wiser.

I have gained a more profound understanding of what it is to be a mother, both through the depth of the agony I feel when my children scream and cry and from the connection my mother has to my pain. She has tried to fill the empty space in my bed, holding me each night until I cry myself to sleep. She has fought to hold back her own tears to make room for mine. She has explained to me that the anguish I am feeling is both my own and my children's, and I understood that she was right as I saw the pain in her own eyes.

Advertisement

Read all the Breaking News Live on indiatvnews.com and Get Latest English News & Updates from World

Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement
Advertisement